Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his mega-best-selling book "How to win friends and influence people" writes about the power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
You've probably been to a party and you've been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself leaping to final base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are usually popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask to get conversation moving. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?
2. What is you all time favourite film and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?
6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What's the most hilarious experience you've had in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What's the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman - intelligence, a good body or good looks?
And now let's get a little more risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so were you seen?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?
Dale Carnegie in his mega-best-selling book "How to win friends and influence people" writes about the power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
You've probably been to a party and you've been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself leaping to final base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are usually popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask to get conversation moving. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?
2. What is you all time favourite film and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?
6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What's the most hilarious experience you've had in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What's the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman - intelligence, a good body or good looks?
And now let's get a little more risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so were you seen?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?
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